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Right now, I’m on a mini road trip from Little Rock, Arkansas to Austin, Texas. Don’t worry, I’m not the one driving as I write this. I’ve been traveling as much as ever, without a kitchen most days, save for the times when friends and family let me take over theirs. As many people witnessed, the food blogging world erupted in Peanut Butter Pies on Friday. It was to hold up our friend Jennifer Perillo who lost her husband very suddenly last week at much too young an age, and to honor him in the process. You see, Peanut Butter Pie was his favorite, and what better way for food bloggers to come together to support one of our own, than to cook together.

I was overwhelmed by the Twitter feed #apieformikey on Friday and the pictures of Peanut Butter Pies being baked and presented simultaneously around the world; a small way to walk alongside Jennie during her husband’s memorial service. I was also sad that I was sitting on an airplane as I read it, and unable to make one too.

When I first got the email with the news about Jennifer’s loss, I was driving down the highway to a scary place I call the mall, anxious about something trivial (what I was going to wear for my book cover shoot). I think I stopped breathing for about a minute. Things seem so impossibly unfair and illogical sometimes. And it took me back to that feeling I had in January, when I lost someone close to me suddenly in a plane crash. I immediately felt that overwhelming feeling again that I knew she must be feeling in that moment… the utter shock that was so overwhelming that it is almost too much to swallow at once.

I wrote Jennie later that day with tears streaming down my face and told her all that I’d learned from losing suddenly. I said that I knew that there was nothing I could say that would make it better.  Except that my best friend, who had lost her mother, told me something that I’d always held onto during the hardest moments. She said that I had to accept that it was going to be really, impossibly hard for a while. That I couldn’t resist it. But that she promised it would get easier. And I held onto that thread all the way through until I could breath again.

When I got off the plane in Little Rock I drove through Texas and stopped off to say hello to my relatives. I showed them a video tribute by White On Rice Couple and told them the beautiful thing that was happening and they said, “well, do you want to make a peanut butter pie?”

And so we did. We made a peanut butter pie and shared it with friends.

This is for Jennie, for Mikey, for their daughters, for my friend Kristen at Dine & Dish who lost her brother two nights ago. It is for everyone else who has loved and lost and struggled through and tried to make sense of it all.

The Peanut Butter Pies that popped up everywhere represent all that is good about humanity and how we can come together in a time of hardship. And I’m glad to be part of it all, as imperfect and trying as it can be, it is also wonderful.

“Peanut Butter Pie”

(from In Jennie's Kitchen)
Prep Time30 minutes
Cook Time3 hours
Total Time3 hours 30 minutes
Servings: 10 -12 servings


  • 8 ounces chocolate cookies
  • 4 tablespoons butter melted
  • 4 ounces finely chopped chocolate or semi-sweet chocolate chips
  • 1/4 cup chopped peanuts
  • 1 cup heavy cream
  • 8 ounces cream cheese
  • 1 cup creamy-style peanut butter
  • 1 cup confectioner's sugar
  • 1 – 14 ounce can sweetened condensed milk
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1 teaspoon freshly squeezed lemon juice


  • Add the cookies to the bowl of a food processor and pulse into fine crumbs. Combine melted butter and cookie crumbs in a small bowl, and stir with a fork to mix well. Press mixture into the bottom and 1-inch up the sides of a 9-inch springform pan.
  • Melt the chocolate in a double boiler or in the microwave. Pour over bottom of cookie crust and spread to the edges using an off-set spatula. Sprinkle chopped peanuts over the melted chocolate. Place pan in the refrigerator while you prepare the filling.
  • Pour the heavy cream into the bowl of a stand mixer or hand mixer and beat until stiff peaks form. Transfer to a small bowl and store in refrigerator until ready to use. Place the cream cheese and peanut butter in a deep bowl. Beat on medium speed until light and fluffy. Reduce speed to low and gradually beat in the confectioner's sugar. Add the sweetened condensed milk, vanilla extract and lemon juice. Increase speed to medium and beat until all the ingredients are combined and filling is smooth.
  • Stir in 1/3 of the whipped cream into the filling mixture (this helps lighten the batter, making it easier to fold in the remaining whipped cream). Fold in the remaining whipped cream. Pour the filling into the prepared springform pan. Drizzle the melted chocolate on top, if using, and refrigerate for three hours or overnight before serving.


  • susan
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 1:42 pm

    so sad…but your friends words are so true. I lost my dad over 4 years ago and the first two years were torture. The fact that I got out of bed, was a miracle. Sadness, grief, and tragedy brought a group of people together from across the globe. Such a wonderful community we have acquired…amongst the sadness, I feel blessed.

  • aida mollenkamp
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 2:03 pm

    Beautiful post, Georgia. It’s heart-warming to see the blog community come together to support and empathize with Jennifer.

  • Bev Weidner
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 2:14 pm

    Tears, all over again!

  • Kulsum at JourneyKitchen
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 2:33 pm

    Beautiful Georgia. I’m glad to be part of this community of great people.

  • Amanda
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 2:41 pm

    So sorry you lost someone you loved Georgia. I can only imagine how much your heart ached…

    But so thankful that you are able to share such important words of wisdom. I bet its exactly what Jenni needed.

    Be blessed~

  • Marla
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 3:35 pm

    G I am so happy that you had the opportunity to make a pie. It goes so far beyond the crust and creamy filling. Life. You are filled with it my friend and I am so happy to have you in my world. Beautiful tribute. xo

  • Lucy Lean
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 3:52 pm

    Thanks for the pie and for the words and for the Shakespeare… x

  • Jennifer (Savor)
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 4:06 pm

    Thank You for this Georgia. I am one of those who mourn each day and appreciate the time you took to write this and make the pie.

  • Brooke @ Food Woolf
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 8:33 pm

    Georgia, thank you so much for your thoughtful post. I’m really glad you shared with us the profound and simple words of your friend. I think she’s absolutely right–in the face of our greatest fear and pain, we really do have to SURRENDER to them. Struggling against it only makes it worse. Or delays the process. Hugs to you. And to everyone else who has had to face deep loss and pain such as Jennie’s.

  • Nancy@acommunaltable
    Posted August 14, 2011 at 9:11 pm

    Hi Georgia,

    Your friend is right… on all counts. I think what we struggle the most with when we lose someone we truly love is the realization that life as we know it will never be the same again – and we wonder if we will ever feel joy again. . But that is the blessing of a heart that loves – joy does come again … and that is what we have to hold onto.

    I am so glad that you were able to make the pie with people you love and share it with them … because as you said, that is what makes this life wonderful!!

  • shelly (cookies and cups)
    Posted August 15, 2011 at 4:45 am

    Such a great post Georgia!

    Posted August 15, 2011 at 6:55 am

    surrender . . . often brings feelings of negativity but in reality that surrender brings relief of responsibility . . . if i surrender, i can let go and let someone else take possession of whatever i’m desperately trying to hold on to. and that’s not to say that some things aren’t worth fighting for – they are. but surrender can be a healing balm too . . . i like that you used that word in this post, Georgia, because while i wish with all my heart that if we all fought and fought and fought with all our might, it will not bring Mikey back; the only option is to surrender to the reality or stay stuck . . . and Mikey is still gone. i love that you shared the video w/family and i love that you made peanut butter pie to share – it’s the best tribute we can offer one another

  • bridget {bake at 350}
    Posted August 15, 2011 at 1:03 pm

    Georgia….I love your pie, but especially the words that go along with it. ♥

  • Diane {Created by Diane}
    Posted August 15, 2011 at 8:58 pm

    wonderful post, I’m sure Jennie appreciated your kind words.

  • Peggy
    Posted August 16, 2011 at 6:24 am

    It is truly amazing all of the peanut butter pies that have emerged. My heart aches for Jennie and her girls, but it also smiles with the fact that so many bloggers have stepped up to support one of their own! Beautiful words Georgia =)

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